Having tried numerous friendly and best parenting tips with his 11-year-old son Uday, Ravi Shankar here tries to explain the most common words and phrases we use with kids in daily life and the way they affect them. Let us also take a leaf out of his experience in parenting. He says that the most used Damaging phrases by parents are:-
A result, they react quickly and intensely to just about everything. Parents of such kids often make the mistake of trying to wash that sensitivity out. Over time, this throws the child’s brain chemistry out of wack and reduces their ability to empathize with others. After all, if they’re taught that their emotions don’t matter, why would they think anyone else's, many kids are simply born with a more finely tuned nervous system. As According to psychologists do? Child psychologist Elinor Bashe encourages parents to listen to and accept a child’s emotions, even if they don’t seem logical.
When your child comes home upset because their best friend rejected their dance request, it can be tempting to say, “Well, that’s life.” What that phrase suggests is, “Hey - your experience here is nothing unique, keep up with it.” That might be totally appropriate to say to a 25-year-old under the same circumstances. But a child’s brain is physically unable to grasp the fact that their experiences are not unique. When you tell them that, they’ll feel guilty, frustrated and confused.
Instead, you should validate their experience and then encourage resiliency.
I get it. Little boy refuses to go to sleep at 8 pm unless he knows why. His mom, in an irritated state of mind, says, “You wanna know why? Because I said so .”
That is a terrible response. It tends to build resentment in children because it forces them to accept a dogmatic belief. This will inevitably lead to a power struggle when that child learns to come up with answers on their own that question their parents’ authority.
Instead, as frustrating as it might be, why not just answer the question? I mean, your parenting decisions are based on logic – why not share that with your child? It will help them understand that, sometimes, authority really does know best.
Kids learn from a very young age that the phrase ‘shut up’ is meant as an insult. And let’s face it – the last person who should be insulting a child is their parent. Now, chances are you’ve got a very good reason for telling your child to ‘shut up.’
That reason is likely that you’re overwhelmed. It happens. Your kid won’t stop singing mass songs and socially, it’s really frustrating. But instead of telling them to shut up, why not explain that – hey, mommy had a long day and she’d really appreciate some quiet time!
Better still, give your child a chance to make all the noise they want and tell them that at ‘X’ time, they need to be quiet.
As parents, we all need a child's Excellency in academics as well as a Smart Personality, which made Eenadu Eehibu design,innovative grand programs to enhance primary life skills to establish them as strong individuals by building their confidence, ability to solve issues, training in public speaking, overcoming phobias, inculcating the need ofcreativity with effective memory techniques. Touring our events and website encourages their confidence in competing with Global standards.
As Eehibu we understand the importance of practicing the taught values, hence we conduct a lot of parental interactive events & feedback gathering activities to improvise our standards for even better outcomes and will ensure to keep the parents updated about the success achieved and the previous analytics. We regularly keep our valued parents posted about various child centric measures planned by Eenadu for mental and physical growth of children through expert planning and perfect implementation.
In this page, Eenadu Eehibu gives parents a feasibility to check the standards, select a program for you precious kid suitable for his personality and then pay through our secured payment system for paid programs, and know the venue details and get a print out of entry pass and a choice to pamper with a wide variety of Hibu range, have a great time, associated with us. Happy Registration!!
Areas of Child Development
Five areas of child development
1.Physical Health, Well-Being, and Movement Skills
These activities are designed to help develop your child’s large and small muscle control, her coordination, and her overall physical fitness.
2.Social and Emotional Development
Activities in this area target your child’s ability to make and keep social relationships, both with adults and with other children. He will learn to recognize and express his own feelings more effectively. He will gain experience understanding and responding to the emotions of others.
3.Approaches to Learning
Children differ in how they approach new tasks, difficult problems, or challenges. These activities will spark your child’s curiosity,interest, and attention and the ability to stay on task. Research suggests strong links between positive approaches to learning and success in school
4.Thinking Abilities and General Knowledge
The suggestions in this area help your child figure out how the world works and how things are organized. Your child will experience “learning how to learn,” improving problem-solving ability and abstract thinking.
5.Communication, Language and Literacy
These activities will help your child learn to express himself and to understand what others say. Early reading and writing skills are also targeted.